I believe it’s not an accident that you are reading this post. I want you to know that all your waiting time and maybe heartaches matter to God. And this is a letter I’ve read from a blog few years ago that blessed my heart. This is what I believe we ladies need to know. This is why my heart is confident to believe that God loves me and that He has in store great things for me. So here it goes…
To Every Godly Young Woman
To every girl who wants to be called “beautiful,” not “hot.”
To every girl that cries at night because of another heartbreak.
To every girl that just wants to hang out not make out.
To every girl that won’t give away her kisses to just anyone because she knows they really mean something.
To all those girls that want a boyfriend whose dedicated enough to keep God number one above her.
To every girl who just wishes her boyfriend cared more & gave up hope a long time ago for something better.
To every girl who would just once want a guy to give their jacket up when they are cold.
To every girl who just wants him to call.
To every girl who lies awake at night thinking about him
To every girl that is SCARED to put her heart out there again because she has been stupid enough to give her heart away to every guy she sees and watched them take it & step on it.
To every girl who knows what it’s like to show how much she cares and gets nothing back
To every girl that believes in her dreams.
To every girl that’s willing to give everything over to God so that through Him she can achieve those dreams.
To every girl that doesn’t want a guy who just plays with her emotions but actually cares about how she feels.
To every girl that gave her heart away to have it shoved back in her face.
To every girl that’s searching to have a godly boyfriend that loves God with all His heart.
A boyfriend who wants a Proverbs 31 woman and will respect her for who God made her to be and not try to change her.
Someone who she can share everything with…the good, the bad…& everything in-between.
A guy who really loves her, not only as his girlfriend but as a best friend!
A boyfriend who really CARES about what she has to say and what she thinks, not just about how she looks in tight clothes.
A guy who looks at her heart and sees her…a beautiful creation in Christ…and will cherish her as Christ cherishes the church.
Someone who won’t leave her for someone that’s easy and fast, but a guy who’ll stay with her to the end.
I think all girls can relate….
I pray that we would wait for what God has in store for us! There’s a guy out there…God’s working on his heart as He is of yours (& if He’s not, you should really be thinking about “why not?”).
But until you meet that godly gentleman, give your whole heart to God, all your fears & ambitions…let Him smooth out those rough spots!
My youth pastor is awesome. He said, “The world today shows you what they say is ‘love’ but it isn’t really. There’s no commitment!”
So until you get married, commit yourself to Christ.
Let Him show you, true love, & what real dedication means.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, Thank you for loving me even at my worst. When the time comes that its hard for me to believe your promises help me to make my faith bigger and believe and be confident that you know what’s best for me. From now on I trust you that you have a wonderful plan for my life and you make everything work together for my good. Amen.